Therapy for Women in Midlife
Because no one warned you it would be this hard.
For the woman who knows something has to change.
Telehealth - Georgia
25 years clinical experience
Midlife Women Only
You weren’t ready for this.
Something shifted. Could be hormones.
Could be the slow accumulation of too many years of way too much.
Either way, you've arrived at this point — and nothing you've done before quite prepared you for it.
The anxiety, the exhaustion, the sense that something has to change, but you can’t see what or how.
That's what it feels like to stand at the edge of the rest of your life.
Sara Anderson, LPC
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2 in 3
women over 40 are struggling with their mental health — most while still fully functioning
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9 in 10
haven’t sought help—not because they don’t need it, but because no one told them help exists for this
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1 in 6
perimenopausal women experience significant mood disruption that goes undetected in routine medical care
Does this sound like you?
Anxious in a way that's getting harder to explain away.
Irritable in a way that's starting to cost you things.
Exhausted in a way that sleep doesn't fix.
Overwhelmed in a way that nothing on your to-do list can fix.
Quietly wondering if this is as good as it gets.
Drinking a little more than you'd like to admit.
Functioning fine on the outside. Quietly not okay on the inside.
The one nobody worries about — which means nobody asks if you're okay.
Who takes care of the woman who takes care of everything else?
You have spent years — probably most of your adult life — being the capable one. The one who shows up. The one people lean on.
You're good at it. You might even like it.
But somewhere in there, your own needs stopped making the list. Now you're overwhelmed, utterly exhausted, and not sure where to start. No one notices how hard this is. And you're fed up being the only one who cares.
I deeply believe that change begins when we’re fed up.
So let’s begin.
Looking for a Therapist Who Actually Gets It?
Finding the right therapist in midlife can be its own special hell.
Maybe you’ve tried before and have been handed a worksheet or told to download a meditation app. Maybe you’ve heard, "that sounds really hard" while you sat there thinking I know it's fucking hard, that's why I'm here.
What you want:
Someone who knows the difference between anxiety and perimenopause — and understands it's usually both
A therapist who has seen the rage, the hot flashes, the 3am spirals, and the complete unraveling of a life that used to make sense — and doesn't pathologize any of it
Someone with an opinion who will actually say it out loud rather than psychobabbling you to death
Work that goes underneath — not another mindset shift, not another workbook, not another invitation to "notice your thoughts"
Someone who understands that you are in the middle of the most disorienting passage of your life and won’t dismiss it as “just hormones.”
You've spent enough time in rooms where you had to make yourself smaller to be understood.
This isn't that room.
How am I any different?
There are a lot of ways to do good therapy and a lot of good therapists out there doing it.
Here are a few ways I might be different:
I believe everything we do, we do for a reason. I don't judge the ways you've coped or the choices that look messy from the outside. Everything that got you here made sense at the time. We start there.
I want to get to what's actually driving the overwhelm, the anxiety, the exhaustion. Surface-level solutions are not my thing. There's always more than what meets the eye — and I think we should both go looking for it.
I hold where you are with compassion while providing support, tools, and space to move toward what actually feels right — for you, not for everyone else.
I believe we are born with an innate sense of self that gets buried under the obligations, the roles, the sheer survival of a life fully lived. My hope — genuinely — is that you find your way back to her. The person you were before you became everything to everyone. The second act can be the best one. But only if you're actually in it.
I use paradox, humor, directness, and deep compassion — because those are the things that create real human connection. And real human connection is where change actually happens.
I bring 25 years of trauma-focused, neuroscience-informed work — somatic, Jungian, and expressive — woven together into something that is not a one-size-fits-all approach.
Okay, but how do we do it?
I practice Somatic Depth Psychotherapy — Havening Techniques®, EMDR, and Jungian depth psychology working together to reach the body and the psyche at once.
The work is supportive, compassionate, experiential, and transformational.
Learn more about Somatic Depth Therapy here.
You’ve been holding it together long enough.
Let’s change that.
Or call: 770-328-0746
Telehealth · Throughout Georgia
Alpharetta · Johns Creek · Roswell · Sandy Springs · Atlanta · St. Simons Island
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Your body is changing, your responsibilities are heavier than ever, and your nervous system is more reactive than it used to be. Kids leaving, career shifts, aging parents, relationship strain—it all compounds. Therapy can help you understand what's driving the anxiety and actually feel calmer, not just cope better.
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For a lot of women, yes, and it's not a character flaw. Midlife brings a perfect storm: more on your plate, less margin, and physical changes that affect your mood and energy. The strategies that used to work stop working and it’s a sign you need different support.
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Absolutely. Perimenopause, menopause, thyroid issues, chronic pain—they all amplify anxiety and emotional exhaustion. Your doctor can address the medical side, but therapy addresses what they can't: the nervous system impact, the grief over how your body has changed, and the cumulative stress of managing it all at once.
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Completely. After decades of being a mother, a wife, an employee, an employer, a leader, a community member, a friend, and the one who holds it all together—many women realize they've lost touch with themselves. You've been putting yourself last for so long, you may not even know what you want anymore or how to even change that. That's exactly what we work on together.
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If you're asking this question, it's worth exploring. When you feel stuck more days than not, when sleep is a struggle, when you're snapping at people you love or withdrawing from things you used to enjoy—that's your system telling you something. Therapy isn't just for crisis. It's for women who are tired of white-knuckling through.
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Yes—exclusively. All sessions are virtual via secure, HIPAA-compliant telehealth. You can work with me from anywhere in Georgia—Atlanta, Marietta, Alpharetta, Roswell, Decatur, and beyond. No commute, no waiting room. Many women find this easier to fit into an already full life.
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It's the grief and disorientation many parents feel when their children leave home. Even if you're proud of them, you may still feel a deep sense of loss—for the role you held, for who you were when they needed you. Therapy helps you grieve that, reconnect with yourself, and find your footing in this next chapter. -
Somatic therapy works with what's stored in your body, not just your mind. That tension in your shoulders, the tightness in your chest, the feeling of being constantly braced—those aren't just symptoms. They're information. Through body-awareness practices, we help your nervous system release what it's been holding. It's especially helpful when talk therapy alone hasn't been enough.
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EMDR helps your brain process painful or distressing memories so they stop running the show. It reduces the emotional charge of difficult experiences—trauma, anxiety, grief, old patterns that keep showing up no matter what you do. For women who prefer something gentler, I also offer Havening Techniques.
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Havening is a gentle, neuroscience-based approach that uses soothing touch patterns to help the brain release distressing emotions. Like EMDR, it processes difficult experiences—but many women find it feels softer and more calming. It's effective for anxiety, stress, old trauma, and building a more resilient nervous system.
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Look for someone with real experience in this stage of life—not just general therapy with midlife tacked on. Ask if they understand what it actually feels like: the exhaustion, the identity questions, the body changes, the overwhelm. Most importantly, trust your gut about whether you feel seen. That's why I offer a free consultation.
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I'm a private-pay provider—I don't bill insurance directly. Sessions are $185 - $350, depending on length and type. Many plans reimburse 50-80%. I provide superbills. do provide superbills you can submit for potential out-of-network reimbursement, and many PPO plans cover a good portion. You can also use HSA or FSA funds. I'm happy to talk through fees during your free consultation. -
Under the No Surprises Act, you're entitled to a Good Faith Estimate of what therapy will cost before you begin. I provide this as part of our intake process, and you can request one at any time.
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Yes. For clients who want to move through trauma work more quickly — or who can't do weekly therapy but want concentrated, deep work — I offer therapy intensives.
An intensive is an extended session or series of sessions scheduled close together, rather than the standard weekly model. Instead of processing something difficult over months, an intensive creates a container to go deeper, faster.
Intensives are particularly useful if you're dealing with a specific trauma or event, if you've done therapy before and want to move through stuck points, or if your schedule makes weekly sessions difficult.
If you're interested in an intensive, we'll talk through whether it's the right fit on your free consultation call.
Frequently Asked Questions
Hours of Operations
Tuesday - Thursday
10 am - 4 pm EST by appointment only
Reach out with questions
Call 770-328-0746 or by email
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You have the right to receive a Good Faith Estimate of what your services may cost